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Should You Be a Sugar Baby?

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Sugar life can be super fun, but it can also be really ugly. And the difference usually is you.

Who you are will determine the sort of sugar relationship you have.

If you are either of the below, sugar dating will probably be more damaging than helpful for you. Additionally, if someone you know is one of these and wants to enter sugar land, please restrain her.

The Airhead

Most successful people are smart. Most smart people respect intelligence. Whereas men may date a pretty girl just for her looks, if she doesn’t possess intelligence, they will never respect her. They may sleep with her, but really, sex is not that hard to find and without a connection (for which intelligence plays a part), why would a sugar daddy stick around?

The Victim

Are you easily hurt? Do people take advantage of you? Then, get out now. Stop looking for sugar and work on your self-esteem.

Low self-esteem and vulnerability attract the worst type of men. Seriously, the types of men who are emotionally abusive, the type that thrive on exploitative relationships, the type that prey on weakness to get what they want can sense vulnerability even through e-mail interaction.

Some sugar daddies are genuinely sweet and giving, but when given the chance, men will push you just to see if they can.  The emotional damage that can come from a bad sugar relationship is not worth it.  Sugar dating is trying and raises questions that are troubling even to people with good self-esteem.

If you don’t have yourself intact, and you damage yourself further to make a few bucks out of a sugar relationship, you’ll ruin your chances of success in anything you ever do.

 

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