Money is an integral part of the sugar relationship, but for a successful sugar arrangement, it should never be the focus.
I don’t care what your current financial situation is, forget about money for awhile. Forget that you don’t have money and forget that a sugar daddy can give you money.
Concentrate on the (non-monetary) things that you can get out of a sugar relationship and the value that you bring to a sugar relationship.
Focus on increasing the value you bring to a relationship. Specifically, the value that cannot be bought with money. Sex can be readily purchased. Enjoyable company cannot. Neither can connection.
This is what you need to focus on and emphasize. Obtaining steady sugar from your sugar daddy depends on cultivating a relationship that transcends money.